How long does it take for an order to ship?

If an order is submitted by 3pm MT on a weekday, or 1pm MT on Saturday, they typically ship the same day. If we are not able to ship immediately, we will let you know as soon as possible. In these cases, the processing time is typically one or two business days. Our shipping methods available in the U.S. are U.S.P.S. First Class Mail or Priority Mail.

How will my order be shipped?

All orders are shipped in a discreet white box with the return address shown as "H.I." Inside, products are wrapped in Honoring Intimates' beautiful tissue paper and lingerie items are tagged with the Honoring Intimates tag featuring a verse from the Song of Solomon.

Why don’t you use the term “sex toy”?

We believe calling marital aids such as romantic and intimate devices "sex toys" undervalues the incredible benefits that they can provide - physically, sexually and emotionally. We only choose the highest quality romantic devices, which means they are primarily made with body-safe silicone.

I'm a newlywed. Where do I start?

The product descriptions provide great tips on how to use the various intimate devices and we will soon have video reviews to explain each product. We also have a Blog where we try to put helpful articles. That said, the best advice we can give is to have fun with your spouse and enjoy God's gift of marriage and the marriage bed!

Where do you source your lingerie?

We have found much more consistency in quality and sizing by working with U.S. companies, so we now work exclusively with U.S. vendors (ex. Dreamgirl, Shirley of Hollywood, Oh La La Cheri).


We ship to a number of countries the least expensive way possible (USPS international), but have found that customs/taxes/tariffs may be charged at pickup. These vary by country, so keep in mind that it may be an issue when your item(s) arrive. Canadian taxes, for example, are 5-15% plus an $8.50 fee. Australian taxes are 10%.

What are the “do’s and don’ts” of Christian marital intimacy?

Do: Exclusivity, Mutual Agreeability, Pleasurability, Frequency

Don’t: Pornography, Adultery, Orgies, Prostitution, Homosexuality, Fornication, Impurity, Lustful Passions

What is different about Honoring Intimates?

At Honoring Intimates, besides being enthusiastic about helping Christian marriages thrive, we are also health-conscious. As such, we have chosen only the best lubricants, oils and lotions made with an array of organic ingredients. 

How can a MARITAL AID be “honoring”?

We believe that romantic and assistive devices can increase pleasure and satisfaction in marital intimacy – helping build a solid foundation for a lasting, faithful, God-honoring marriage. Honoring Intimates never encourages or sells products related to bondage or sexual sin, as these could lead to physical and emotional pain - which go against God's design for marriage and the Christian life. 


Due to the intimate nature of these items, returns are not allowed for opened, used or worn items. The good news is that many of our romantic devices include a manufacturer warranty for at least one year. Please email us at if you need assistance with an order.

What is your subscription service?

We offer a monthly subscription service, which allows subscribers to receive a Lingerie Box in the mail every month for just $19.99. Our hope is that this will create excitement and joy in the marriage bed! Subscribers will be given six options to choose from each month at varying levels of spiciness (we send renewing subscribers a Google form to select their item for that month's Lingerie Box).

Why don't you have my size in an item?

We do our best to maintain inventory in our most popular pieces and sizes. If we are missing your size in a particular item, please email and we will try to get it for you.