Initiating Sex with Your Spouse
Initiating sex can sometimes be a challenge for a husband or a wife. If a partner is not comfortable expressing such desires, feelings can get hurt and a pattern of bitterness can form. One way to initiate sex very simply is to prepare the bedroom space (and yourself) for intimacy. Some simple tips are:
1. Use a salt lamp, flame-less candles, Christmas lights or other romantic lighting to set the mood. Turn these on before your spouse comes in for the night.
2. For the women - shower and put on lingerie. This may only stay put for a minute or two, but it shows you put that extra effort into expressing your desire. It will also make you feel more attractive!
4. Above all else, have fun…because a God-honoring marriage should bring joy and pleasure!
Honor God. Honor Your Spouse. Enjoy the gift!